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D-Day

Sep 5, 2025
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Updated: Nov 15, 2025

In my way of looking at life, D-Day was my life after reading "Desiderata." My Catholic faith started my spiritual walk, and Desiderata helped engage my head and spoke to practical ways to see and engage with the world - making the spiritual walk my own. I have always had a copy of it somewhere throughout my life - at home, during wartime, in every office - including the Pentagon.

I share it with you below - would love to hear your thoughts:


Desiderata: 


Go placidly amid the noise and the haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.


Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.


Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.


Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.


Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.


Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.


Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.


Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.


Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.


And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

 
 
 

15 Comments


Nancy Hopper
Nancy Hopper
13 hours ago

Personal turning points often become more useful when viewed through the decisions made afterwards rather than the event itself. The idea of finding a “D-Day” in life also has a practical parallel in professional work, where a difficult project phase can force a clearer view of priorities, judgement and responsibility. In construction, pressure tends to expose weaknesses in decision-making, particularly when contractual obligations, incomplete information and competing interpretations appear at the same time. A calm response matters, but so does having enough technical understanding to distinguish an urgent issue from one that could have longer contractual consequences. This is where structured learning can become relevant, especially when dealing with internationally used forms. For example, FIDIC webinar training can provide a useful…

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The idea of finding a personal “D-Day” in life is interesting because major turning points rarely arrive with a clear instruction manual. In professional settings, the same principle can apply when circumstances suddenly change and decisions have to be made with incomplete information. Staying calm is useful, but calmness alone is not enough; good judgement also depends on understanding what happened, separating facts from assumptions, and recognising which details may become important later. That becomes particularly relevant when a project faces delays, disputes, or competing accounts of responsibility. A disciplined approach to construction contract analysis can help establish what the contract actually requires and how events affected performance, rather than relying solely on recollection or hindsight. The broader lesson from Desiderata…

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